6 Truths About Marriage Every Engaged Couple Needs to Hear

As Ted and I meet with engaged couples, I find myself sharing things I wish our mentors had told us.

Eighteen years ago, my fiancé Ted and I sat side-by-side on a blue floral couch in a living room in Virginia. Across from us, in a set of club chairs, sat a married couple from our church. As we chatted with them for the first time, both nervousness and excitement cartwheeled in my stomach.

They’d been married at least a decade. They knew firsthand about marriage’s better and worse, richer and poorer, sickness and health. As Ted and I counted down the four months until our wedding, they were there to help prepare us for the days, months and years to come after we promised, “I do.”

What I wish our premarital mentors had said |||READ MORE


Dreamin' of Heaven

When I first visited Orlando, Florida, I realized why it's called the "Theme Park Capital of the World."

Disney World theme parks and resorts cover 30,000 acres. As if that weren't enough, there's the competitive Universal Studios, the legendary Sea World, plus a plethora of smaller amusement parks like Legoland, Aquatica, and Discovery Cove.

All of these theme parks are successful because people love fantasy. There are a number of negative applications I could make about our desire to fantasize, but there's also a very positive one |||READ MORE

 


HIKING IN TIERRA DEL FUEGO NATIONAL PARK: A GUIDE TO INDEPENDENT HIKING

If you’re planning to visit Ushuaia, a few days of hiking in Tierra del Fuego National Park need to be on your itinerary! I mean, this park is about as epic as it gets. You are basically hiking at the end of the world, in the middle of the subantarctic forest, looking out over the Beagle Channel, and the chill in the air is a reminder that the next stop is Antarctica!

Tierra del Fuego National Park is Argentina‘s southernmost park and it offers trails for hikers of all levels. Whether you’re looking for a light stroll that’s under 1 kilometre, a longer day hike with some elevation gain, or a more challenging overnight trek across a mountain pass, this park has something for you.

The hiking in Tierra del Fuego National Park is nothing short of spectacular. You’ll be treated to dramatic landscapes featuring snowcapped mountains, forests, lakes, lagoons, peat bogs and pebbly beaches. Not to mention the ever-changing weather; drizzle, fog or shine, the view in front of you is constantly changing. That’s part of the charm of the place – you just never know what you’re going to get hiking at the end of the world! |||READ MORE

 


How Do You Remove A Watch Strap Without The Tool?

A watch is such an accessory that has a universal fan base. Its use is not restricted to anyone which makes it a popular jewelry type. And while the main device can last for years, the straps or watch bands tend to wear off and need replacement. Unfortunately, it is a costly affair to get them replaced at a store. 

The good thing is, this task can be conducted at home with a few simple steps. So, whether you are changing the strap because it has become time-worn or simply to alter its look, consider doing it yourself. You would be saving quite a few bucks!

And we are here to guide you in that very process.

Leather Watch Strap Removal

1. Settling the watch

Grab a soft towel or cloth and fold it evenly, such that the watch can rest on it. Set this down on top of a table or counter-top and drop the watch on the soft material.

Make sure the face of the dial is in contact with the cloth, meaning it will be laid upside down on its face. The cloth or towel will cushion the exterior of the watch from any unwanted damage like scratches or nicks |||READ MORE

 


July 17th is #NoCorruptionDay and here’s all you need to know

YOU MAY BE CORRUPT AND SERAP (Socio-Economic Rights and Accountability Project) is here to tell you how. On the 17th July 2020, tagged #NoCorruptionDay, we are joined by dedicated citizens; the likes of MI Abaga, Alex Ekubo, Osas Igodaro, Lillian Esoro, Jeff Bankz & others – who are willing to use their platforms to share this powerful message and also supported by agencies; Accountability Lab and Yiaga.We have activities centered around #NoCorruptionDay geared towards tackling corruption through mindset reorientation.

In 2019, SERAP undertook a survey to assess & highlight key behavioural and belief patterns about corruption across Nigeria. The survey birthed the Anti-Corruption Social Norms Report.

This report found that 40% of respondents do not believe in the possibility of successfully ending corruption in Nigeria. 43.3 % do not believe they have a role to play in the change dings lend credence to the idea that corruption has become a Nigerian norm. 71% of research respondents were found to depend on the internet and Social media to reset social norms and get information so naturally, these media became the avenues to prioritize to help policy makers and Anti-corruption agencies effectively reach Nigerians |||READ MORE

 


Oluwo of Iwo kicks against family planning in Nigeria

The Oluwo of Iwo, Oba Abdulrosheed Adewale Akanbi, Telu I, has kicked against the practice of family planning in Nigeria saying its application will wipe out the human race.

The monarch said this while making his contribution to a public debate on family planning recently.

In his opinion, Nigerians should respect the dictate of God on procreation. He argued that the assumption that overpopulation is responsible for poverty is not correct. He said that what China has achieved as the most populous nation and emerging giant of the world could be linked to the country's huge human resources |||READ MORE


'I don't want to die': Final interview with mother, 31, who died from bowel cancer leaves viewers 'absolutely devastated' - after Panorama reveals her treatment was 'paused' for six weeks during lockdown

A mother-of-one's final interview before she died of bowel cancer last month - after her treatment was halted stopped because of the global Covid pandemic - has left viewers 'angry' and 'in floods of tears'.

In an interview broadcast during Panorama: Britain's Cancer Crisis, which aired on BBC 1 last night, Kelly Smith, 31, from Macclesfield, Cheshire, is seen telling hosts of the Radio 5 Live podcast 'You, me and the Big C' that she's 'terrified' of dying.

Kelly had restarted chemotherapy shortly before lockdown after discovering her bowel cancer had spread to her small intestine, her pancreas, lymph nodes, liver, spine, stomach and brain |||READ MORE


Post Covid-19 green recovery: Cycling club advocates implementation of non motorised transport policy

Cycology Riding Club has stressed the need for the implementation of non motorised policy in Nigeria, with the aim of enhancing the safety of cyclists.

Captain of the Cycology Club, Tunde Laoye, made the call at a webinar organised by the club, under its “Share the Road” initiative.

Laoye, said the implementation of the non motorised policy would also encourage greener and less polluted environment |||READ MORE


TikTok to stop app operation in Hong Kong

The move by TikTok, owned by China-based ByteDance, came as Facebook, Google and Twitter put a hold on requests by Hong Kong’s government or police force for information on users, following China’s imposition of a sweeping new security law.

“In light of recent events, we’ve decided to stop operations of the TikTok app in Hong Kong,” TikTok told AFP.

TikTok has consistently denied sharing any user data with authorities in China, and was adamant it did not intend to begin to agree to such requests |||READ MORE


Domestic flights will no longer serve meals on board ― Sirika

The Minister of Aviation, Hadi Sirika, on Monday, said food will no longer be served on domestic flights when operations resume.

Sirika who spoke during the Presidential Taskforce, PTF on COVID-19 briefing in Abuja explained that the decision was part of efforts to control the spread of the novel coronavirus on flights.

“For this domestic operation, there will be no food. No food will be given to reduce contamination level and we will allow you to come with your mask,” he said |||READ MORE


EFCC’s Magu, DSS in arrest, interrogation drama

Acting Chairman of the Economic & Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, Ibrahim Magu, and the Department of State Services, DSS, were principal actors in a drama of confusion, arrest, denial and interrogation, yesterday, in Abuja, the nation’s capital.

Initial reports indicated that Magu had been arrested by men of the DSS, but this was refuted by the agency, which said that its agents did not arrest him.

In a statement, DSS Public Relations Officer, Peter Afunanya, said yesterday: “The Department of State Services, DSS, wishes to inform the public that it did not arrest Ibrahim Magu, acting chairman of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, as has been reported by sections of the media. The service has since today, July 6, 2020, been inundated with enquiries over the alleged arrest.” |||READ MORE


Benue boat mishap: One family lost 5 children, another triplets

Five more bodies were yesterday, recovered from River Benue by local fishermen and the Police taking the number of victims of Sunday’s boat mishap on River Benue at Ijaha community, an outskirt of Makurdi Local Government Area, LGA, to 26.

The victims said to be children of Mobile Police personnel of MOPOL 13 in Makurdi and members of the youth wing of Evangelical Church Winning All, ECWA, Adeke Makurdi, were on their way to an annual church retreat for youths when the boat which they were travelling in capsized midstream due to overloading.

The victims were crossing from Agbor, Innyongu Area of Wadata to a village in an island opposite Kwaghter called Ole-Gabu, for the Annual Church Retreat |||READ MORE


BREAKING: FG extends Phase Two of eased lockdown by four weeks

ABUJA: The Federal Government has extended the Phase Two of the eased lockdown by four weeks, but partially lifted the ban on interstate movement.

Chairman of the Presidential Taskforce PTF on Covid-19 and Secretary to the Government of the Federation SGF, Mr Boss Mustapha disclosed this at a briefing Monday in Abuja.

He said within this extended phase, there will also be a safe re-opening of schools to allow graduating students back to classes, while interstate movements would only take place outside curfew hours |||READ MORE

 


FG slashes fees for conduct of statutory marriages

The Federal Government has announced a downward review of the fees chargeable for services related to the Conduct of Statutory Marriages under the Marriage Act 2004.

Director, Press and Public Relations in the Ministry of Interior, Mohammed Manga in a statement said the new fees would take effect from Wednesday, 1st July 2020.

According to him, the Minister of Interior, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola made the disclosure in a Public Notice signed by the Permanent Secretary and Principal Registrar of Marriages in Nigeria, Georgina Ehuriah |||READ MORE

 


Video: Regina Daniels releases trailer on journey through pregnancy, childbirth

Billionaire wife, actress and new mom, Reginal Daniels has released a trailer of her journey through pregnancy and childbirth on her official Instagram page.

The proud mom is set to release the full documentary titled “our Circle” on the 30th of June, 2020

Regina Daniels just welcome a baby boy on Monday |||READ MORE


Iran issues arrest warrant for Trump over General Soleimani’s killing

Iran has issued an arrest warrant and asked Interpol for help in detaining US President Donald Trump and dozens of others it believes carried out the drone strike that killed a top Iranian general in Baghdad.

Tehran prosecutor Ali Alqasimehr said on Monday that Trump, along with more than 30 others Iran accuses of involvement in the January 3 attack that killed General Qassem Soleimani, face “murder and terrorism charges”, the semi-official ISNA news agency reported, according to Al Jazeera.

Alqasimehr did not identify anyone else sought other than Trump, but stressed Iran would continue to pursue his prosecution even after his presidency ends |||READ MORE


Court restores four demoted profs in Bayelsa varsity

The National Industrial Court, Yenagoa Judicial Division, has ordered the authorities of Federal University, Otuoke, Bayelsa State, to reinstate four professors who were demoted by the institution.

Justice Bashir Attahiru Alkali, in a judgment on the case on Monday also awarded N20m to the affected professors as damages against the management of FUO.

The four dons are Steve Nwabuzor, Felina Nwadike, Sepribo Lawson-Jack, and Evans Eze, who were the claimants in the case that lasted three years |||READ MORE

Courage to Speak the Truth About Sexuality and Gender

Sexual sin is normalized and even celebrated around the world. Christians have God’s truth about sex on our side. The question is: Do we believe it, and are we brave enough to proclaim it?

“Hey, remember that new karaoke place I was telling you about?” my younger sister asked. “Well, listen to this event they just shared.”

She then read a social media advertisement aloud. Using vulgar language, the ad described a weekly event celebrating alternative sexualities. The wording made fun of our small town’s old-fashioned values, and it was clear — the owners of this establishment wanted to change our local culture |||READ MORE

 


A Look at Life Being Both Black and Gay in America Right Now

Very often, powerful stories are told with a cisgender white person at the forefront. They’re the main attraction, the voice of the people, meant to command attention and appeal to the general audience with their POV. But it’s been made clear, time and time again, that just won’t cut it anymore.

Even within the LGBTQ+ community, a group made up of beautiful, strong-willed gay, lesbian, queer, trans, and nonbinary individuals, those of color are frequently seen more in that supporting-type role than capable of having that lead perspective.

The progress and power of the Black Lives Matter movement, coming to the forefront during a month meant to represent love and equality, frankly couldn’t have coincided at a more appropriate time. For Dominic and Nick Spence, a black and queer married couple with a prominent social following, they believe “it is important as two Black gay men to see the intersections of our struggles championed by the broader LGBTQ+ movement.” |||READ MORE

 

 


PULL UP FOR CHANGE FOUNDER SHARON CHUTER'S MISSION TO BUILD AN ANTI-RACIST BEAUTY INDUSTRY IS JUST GETTING STARTED

For the past few years, the beauty industry has been abuzz with talk of 'transparency' when it comes to ingredients and supply chains and 'inclusivity' when it comes to shade ranges. But what if brands approached their own employment practices, corporate structure, internal training, external marketing, product development and on-set talent with that same level of regard for transparency and inclusivity? Despite the relative ubiquity of 40-shade foundation ranges and self-aggrandizing empowerment messaging, the beauty industry — like most of corporate America — remains a racist and toxic place, wherein Black talent is often neglected, ignored and erased. Sharon Chuter is on a mission to change that.

On June 3, in the midst of a growing international movement to fight racism and scores of performative posts on social media from brands across corporate America, Chuter went public on Instagram with a simple ask: Pull Up or Shut Up. The founder of UOMA Beauty — whose tenure in the industry includes roles at RevlonL'Oréal and Benefit — was inspired by Rihanna's moving speech at the NAACP Image Awards encouraging people to ask their friends of all races to "pull up" for the Black community. Chuter turned her attention to her own industry, calling upon beauty brands to not just share hollow messages of solidarity on social media — but to get honest about their own shortcomings, offer transparency about the diversity of their employees and outline concrete goals for doing better in the future.

"We ask all brands who have released a statement of support, to publicly release within the next 72hrs the number of black employees they have in their organizations at corporate level. We also need to know the number of black people you have in leadership roles. You all have statements and policies about being equal opportunity employers, so show us the proof," she wrote in an Instagram caption. Within that first 72 hours, dozens of companies, including Ulta, L'Oréal and Glossier, had indeed pulled up — a testament both to the power of social media and of Chuter herself. The movement has also expanded beyond beauty, with companies like Gap, Levi's, Apple and Microsoft coming forward with employment statistics and action plans for change. But all of this, says Chuter, is just the beginning |||READ MORE